Hi. I am new to crossdressing. Used to do it when younger. I would wear my mothers underwear, but she caught me. She did threaten to punish me by buying me ladies underwear. I begged her to, but mom didn’t carry her threat through. But mom recently died. This fired me up to start cross dressing once again. My wardrobe has changed from male to feminine. But I wonder how I can get rid of all my body hairs, even round my genital area. I would be glad of any information on this. Thanks Maria

Hi, I may be visiting New Zealand within the next month or so. I'm going to need to do a few things while I'm there. I hope to be landing in Auckland. The first is a crossdressing makeover. NZ has a significant LGBT community; but I can't find a place online. I've got every search engine in the world, but no luck. Can someone help me out with this? Secondly, I need to go wardrobe shopping. I need everything. I also need to go somewhere they'll actually measure me. Most importantly, I need to learn how to contact "real" CDs, who are open to sharing with newbies. So far, the only thing I've come up with is going to Drag-Shows and trying to get an introduction to one or more of the performers to get hooked-up. I suppose maybe even offering an honorarium might not be such a bad thing. As you can probably tell I could benefit from some advice in this area. I want to be percieved as being sincere and not an admirer looking for a date.

Hello Juliett, I enjoy your videos and blog, and first want to thank you for your creative efforts and presentations educating cis gendered individuals about various issues as it relates to trans ppl within the LBGT community. My question is for cis males like myself that are attracted to the feminine features, characteristics, mannerisms, and aura that applies to both cis and trans women. As to be respectful and not offend, fetishize, or objectify trans women/the lbgt community, at what point or when does attraction cross the line and become a fetish, objectification, or "tranny chasing" in your opinion?